Many of us have had to deal with heartaches when our boyfriends decide to break up our relationships. While some breakups are fairly mild, others are quite tumultuous. Your boyfriend may want nothing to do with you. Your frustration may even worsen when you try to contact him and he does not answer your text messages or phone calls.
However desperate your situation appears to be, there are some very powerful techniques that can help you to handle situation when your boyfriend stops calling.
Here are some simple things that will go a long way in ensuring that you get back your ex boyfriend and restore your relationship, which will be stronger.
Stop calling him
Calling your ex in order to ‘straighten things out’ will not bring the expected results. Constantly calling him will just drive him further away. In turn, you will end up even more frustrated. Sometimes it may be necessary to delete his number so that it does not keep distracting you as you use your phone.
Focus on other matters
Constantly thinking of your breakup and ex will not help you to solve matters. You should keep your mind off him for a while. It is a good idea to take a short vacation in order to occupy yourself with things you enjoy and give both of you a break.
Take your time
You will make less of an impact if you rush to find your ex as soon as you come from your vacation. Take your time to contact him. When he doesn’t heard from you for a while he will get curious, so let him get in touch with you instead.
When your ex finally places that call, you will still have a lot to do in order to accomplish your goal. There are a number of good strategies that you need to lay in order for everything to fall neatly into place. Your reaction may ruin everything even now. With the right approach, you will be able to win your boyfriend back and never to lose him again.