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This 30-Year-Old Shares 8 Humbling Lessons to Live By (After Traveling to 48 Countries)

Back in junior high, Tommy Walker always had this vision to travel the world, although he was probably a little confused about how to describe it at the time. He remembers looking at the back row of his fellow classmates during assembly one day, and thinking to himself ‘I’m not going to be here in the future, I’ll be somewhere else’. Fast forward two decades, what would have been expected of him me was to be married, paying mortgages, and busy with a 9-5 career job as would be everyday life. 

As someone who’s just turned 30, he has managed to visit nearly 50 countries and become a professional travel writer with a social reach of over 160,000. His travels, however, gave him a bigger and better outlook on life.

Who is to say we cannot do something? Who is to say we have to be like everyone else?

Here are his 8 pieces of sage wisdom, thanks largely to his travels. 

#1 – Life is not about age

Age doesn’t matter at all in life, all that matters is what you’ve done or what you’re doing. Forget the correct order you might think everything needs to be in. What matters is what you are and where you’re going.

#2 – Your biggest investment is yourself 

The person that makes things happen is you. Network, make new friends, and adapt to new environments, but most importantly, take it all in. Everything is an experience. 

#3 – Every new place is a good place 

Forget comparisons — a new place is a privilege so treat it like you’re opening your eyes for the first time. Embrace the novelties, look out for the small things, and enjoy the ride.

#4 – Choose more experiences over material things

An ex-colleague once told Walker, “The novelty of purchasing material things last for 3 weeks or more, then you’re stuck with them”. Experiences last forever and what we can extract from experiences give us better skills. There is no better way to obtain life experience than to travel. The relatable skills are something you can transfer to your life and career with no limits. 

#5 – The world is full of good people

It doesn’t matter what nationality, culture, or religion we come from — the world is full of good people. Most want to help you with nothing in return, so don’t forget that — we are just humans with different databases of information.

#6 – Don’t be blasé, travel isn’t meant to be easy

We see all the images on Instagram and think the travel life is one big beautiful bubble. Traveling… real traveling has many parts that you have to be mentally and physically strong for. Seeing the world different from your own environments is what it’s all about such as going off the beaten track. 

#7 – Remove expectation

With every situation, the ability to have no expectation is a true skill. Never compare, always look for the positives in every little thing. People always told Tommy that travel destinations are boring, but when he’s visited one (such as Paraguay in 2015) he made the little moments bigger than they were. He specifically recalled finding a run down sausage sandwich stall that sold beer for a total of $3 was a true find whilst visiting an eerily empty abandoned church — and it was beautiful.

#8 – Prioritize your happiness

Whether you are traveling or working in a typical job, happiness is most important. If you don’t enjoy what you’re doing, why keep doing it? If you have the choice, be happy. You see people working inhumane hours for a bigger paycheck, just for the little time they can spend it to make them happy. Why not find a way of life or job that makes you happy every day?

A Final Ethos

Walker’s ethos is infectious and challenges the status quo on the traditional lens on life.  

“For many of us, there is nothing written in the stars that ​says we have to live life a certain way. We have a choice. In a world that expects us to perform many roles, travel allows us to be ourselves.”

Well said, Walker. Well said. Time to pack your bags, folks.

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